It is very irrelevant to compare the fates of life against each other in order to determine who is the bigger victim. We live in a relative universe where there is always someone who has had it better or worse than you.
Get over it!
No one really knows what it's like to walk in someone else's shoes meaning, to determine who is the privilege one is really hard to do from an outside perspective. When we are comparing the fates of life against each other in order to determine who is the bigger victim, we create victims where there should be more
self-love, self-care, and self - responsibility.
When a society starts to promote victim mentality through different benefits we create competition for who gets to win the title Biggest Victim which will always, in the end, become, the Biggest Loser. It creates a society that loses engagement, responsibility, and hope. We are creating a society falling off the wagon of possibilities that lies in the future and the dreams of a better world.
That is the greatest crime towards our kids and I will NOT participate.
To all, you self appointed helpers. WAKE UP. Heal yourself. Deal with your own anxiety. Leave your comfort zone, face your fears. Deal with your midlife crises of worthlessness, –Because you are NOT worthless. STOP projecting that shit onto others. Get tools to deal with pain and grief your losses. Confront your parents for curling you throughout life lying to you that "A good intention is good enough" because
IT IS NOT TRUE!